Ethin's Heart Still Beats: Emergency Surgery....Recovery.....Planned Surgery......Fully Fuctional 2 days later!

I wish that I blogged more than I do!!! I just never can find the time or the words to say! But I am going to start making a much better and more honest effort at doing it. Not because things are bad all the time actually just the opposite, but because you have all shared so much of this journey with my family and I that I want you to be a part of our journey as we do continue to grow and Live!!! Sooooo On with it then right???
This adventure all began about 3 weeks ago....Phil and I spent the evening and night hours together with our combined 5 kiddos. It was a great day, but a twice through the day I had this tearing feeling in my right abdomen. I however just continued to go on with the day once the pain had subsided. Our kiddos ages: 7,8, 8, 9, & 14 Were all running through the dark night playing Ghost in the Graveyard having a blast laughing and yelling while Phil and I sat by the bonfire in his backyard. To be honest with you it was the best sound ever hearing our children all getting along so well as let me tell you that it is not always the case! At 11pm the kids went in and Phil and I continued to enjoy the fire and the new found quietness! When we got up from the fire at around 12:45am I had a terrible back ache and was cold.....To me there was a logical reason for both of these issues; 1. Phil's bonfire chairs are hard plastic and 2. I was near a fire and now was not therefore I should be cold!
Phil and rallied my troops up together. My back hurt so Phil carried Tater Tot to the car while I rallied the older two picking up shoes, sweatshirts, and sandals. Once in the car and headed home I blasted the heat and we were home and in bed by 1:15. At 1:30 I was still cold and said to myself, "Self I think you are running a small fever you should take Tylenol." So I got up took some meds and went to sleep. That cat nap lasted until 2am when I woke up shivering so hard Jessa woke up and thought I was having a seizure. At this time I thought man I am really sick! I called a friend of mine who has a medical background and asked him to come to my house ASAP. Jessa found the thermometer and we took my temp the best we could as I could not keep my mouth closed around the thermometer because my teeth were chattering so hard. Jessa looked at the digits and said, "Mom it says 1 0 33" I interpreted that to be 103.3.
Five minutes went and my friend Jake came through the door and Jessa told him my temp. He looked at me and said, "We need to get you in a tub of cool water." I was so exhausted and hurt so bad I just shook my head and said no. Jake began to pick me up and realized quickly that my temp was high and he wanted to take another temp which came out to be 104.7. His plan quickly changed and we were going to the ER. I called Phil who had been sleeping and told him I was very sick with a fever and in his sleepy voice and calmness said, "It's just a fever I will talk you through it." Jake got me and my kids to the car we dropped off my kids and arrived at the local ER around 3am.
By this time I was hallucinating from the fever and my body hurt so very badly that when they asked what was wrong with me I could not give them an answer as my whole body ached and my brain was boiling! My temp was now 105.3......An IV was started and my temp began to subside and the little red monsters I was seeing also disappeared. The docs again asked what was wrong. By now the only things that really hurt was my abdomen, my right flank, and my head. They decided that peeing in a cup and blood tests would determine my ailments. Before long they came in my room with the UA results and said it did not show any white blood cells and only showed 1 gram negative and one bacteria so nothing screamed that my bladder or Urinary tract was the issue. However my blood test showed enough white blood cells that they new I was very sick somewhere. Being that I had abdomen pain they decided to look at my appendix.
At around 7am I was getting a CT scan of my appendix. At 8am they changed doctors and let me know that my appendix looked fine, but I had a large kidney stone and my kidney was 2 1/2 times the size it should be. They also let me know they were calling another hospital and a surgeon to see what the overall general consensus was on how to treat me. By 8:30 they came to tell me I was being transferred via ambulance to another hospital I was loaded up and enroute by 8:45. I arrived at Mercy at 9:10 and at 9:15 the surgeon came in and said after reviewing my charts and test results I was septic and would be in surgery at 9:30.....I was in so much pain but looked at the clock and said that was in 15 minutes he said yep see you in the OR shortly....HELLO SURGERY!!!!!
Well I called Phil right away I only had 15 minutes to tell someone that I was headed for surgery and I was at this hospital alone! Now on a side note I just need to fill you in on my boyfriend......Phil is very calm and level headed. I would say this is a great thing, because in the worst situations he is under control. However it is a bad thing to as I am not always sure if he is worried about anything EVER! Anyhow I called him and his calmness at that moment and his steady assurance of the situation was amazing.....I told him what was happening and his very calm yet sturdy strong voice he simply said this, "Everything is going to be OK I love you." I told him I loved him too and we hung up.
As I hung up that phone call the Operating Room (OR) people were there taking an inventory of my things and wheeling me down a hall. I was placed on another bed and told to begin thinking of a happy thought....My thought was the conversation I had just shared with my boyfriend. I clearly was put to sleep and a 20 minute surgery turned into 45 minutes and I woke up screaming in pain in the recovery room. They made me comfortable and I was taken to a room upstairs where they would continue to treat my septic state. Phil showed up at 1pm after he had taken care of his children and also he gave up a golfing event to be with me. Another insider on my guy he lives to play golf in the warm months!!! We snuggled down on my hospital bed took a nap and watched the Tigers game together. Oh how romantic we are!!!! Phil left and I was given drugs and quickly fell asleep.
Monday morning the surgeon came and talked to me. He told me that I was very sick and would need surgery again in a few weeks. He also let me know what he did. He placed a stint from right kidney to my bladder. He also let me know that he was surprised to see me doing so great after being septic. Later Monday afternoon they released me from the hospital and I was brought home. Phil set up a ride as he was working and before I knew it I was leaving the hospital just as quickly as I had gotten there.
Fast forward to three days ago.....I arrived at the hospital for my scheduled surgery to fix my kidney and my inards. Phil and I trekked the hour to the hospital and the medical peeps began to prep me for surgery. As they wheeled me away I grabbed Phil's hand he kissed me and said, "See you in a little while." I told him, "I love you." as the tears rolled down my cheeks I was so scared. He simply said, "I love you too." As I drifted off to sleep again I thought of Phil and the love we share. When I awoke in the recovery room the first thing I said was Phil. I asked right away for him. After they got me comfortably drugged up so I was not in pain they wheeled me to where he was waiting and the first thing the nurse said was, "You must be Phil she asked for you as soon as she woke up." I guess some things are just so perfectly put together that nothing not even a surgery can get them off your mind! Phil ended up taking care of me Thursday night. What a good man he is cuz I am a terrible baby when I am not feeling well.
By Friday morning when I woke up I felt fantastic. That was the best I had felt since this whole kidney issue began 2 1/2 weeks prior. So I went on with a normal day and looked forward to Friday Night Lights!!! Yes Football season! I LOVE the fall season and all it brings; crisp air, football, beautiful colors, football, cooler weather, and did I mention football? Friday nights in this small town and the towns that are surrounding us are a big deal even if you have a team going into a game that is 0-20.....Yes going into Friday nights game against our school rival we had a record of 0-20.....Friday nights game was AMAZING!!!! Phil and I are both Alumni and our children also attend Newaygo and as we watched our team not only give Grant a wooping but we watched them shut em out! The final score was 42-0 and Newaygo had finally won a game!!!! As the game ended and we all stood on our feet to clap along to the fight song it was an amazing feeling watching the football players run to the victory bell and finally ring it after so many games had gone by without it ever being rung for a victory! Yes we are onto something I do believe!
Yesterday was a very busy day for us even though we did not have kiddos. The EHSB golf outing was in the morning and we netted just over $400. Then Phil coaches his son O in football and their first game was yesterday afternoon. To top it off we had a wedding reception to attend as well! Needless to say as I sit and finish typing this blog that I started on Friday morning I feel very relaxed to finally have a second to breathe and a minute to complete some thoughts!
Over the Labor Day holiday we had a huge storm rip through our small town and my kids and I also spent some time with good friends floating down the river and camping. I am going to share pictures from everything that has been happening from the river trip to yesterday!!!! I will try to be better about updating, but I can make no firm promises!